Are you fed up with all of the nonsense advice you receive from popular female magazines out there? Of course you're. You and I both realize that they'll rarely give you any valuable ideas that actually work in the real world. As a guy with probably much more experience than the average person I believe I will tell you what really works, for a change, with regards to winning over a guy's heart. And no, it's not the overall advice: give him space, cook him a nice meal and prevent nagging all day long. Sure, to a certain extent that works as well:), but let's focus on the Core way to really "conquer" any guy you would like.
The actual method of getting that guy loving you more than imaginable is a simple, 3 letter word. You got it right: Sex. The way to a man's heart is thru his penis. Whether you want it or otherwise - that's the cold, hard truth.
Did I tell you anything new? Most likely not. But let me elaborate.
Lots of you ladies are completely clueless with regards to sex. You think that you are "good in bed", or maybe ex said so, or whatever. But exactly how can you be sure? After being with increased women than I can remember, honestly, the majority of you're lost wide when it comes to pleasing a man to the fullest. Sure, you are able to maybe get him to orgasm - but just while he came does not mean that it was the best orgasm he's able to having.
Every guy has a various levels of orgasm strength. There is the regular orgasm, then the little bit better one - after which, there's earth-shattering, striking the table and screaming out in pleasure that appears like it lasts forever! And many of you girls have No clue how to get your guy to that particular level.
If you did - he'd look at you completely differently. You would be unique, the only woman that's capable of pleasing him to some mind-blowing level - and, while you probably know, most guys think with their genitals. It is easy to fall crazy about a lady with one of these "magical" skills. Plus they truly are magical.
So, what I'm trying to say is that - the only real sure method of getting a man not only deeply in love with you, but basically sexually hooked on You, is as simple as giving him that third degree of earth-shattering orgasms. When you can accomplish that, you'll have any guy want eating out of the hands and doing everything in his capacity to keep you.
"Okay, so how will i give him that "third level" of orgasm?" I can already hear a number of you asking.
I won't give you 173 "new, funky and fresh tips" for pleasing him better in bed, such as the magazines do. Instead, I'll provide you with only 3 real life tips that really get results. And when it doesn't work - there is little.
1. Change your attitude in bed. That's the initial step. When you're in bed with your guy (or outside), you have to have a "pleasing attitude." Which means that you need to focus all of your focus on satisfying him and making him feel like a King! During sex, treat your guy as if your one and only goal (in everyday life!) is to please him to the fullest. Have a more giving personality, and give without expecting anything in return.
Basically, if you're ready to do anything whatsoever for your guy in bed - because giving him pleasure ultimately gives You pleasure - he'll love you for this. A lot of women just hop on the bed and expect the guy to do everything. You shouldn't be one of those girls (or, cows, how women like this are commonly called by guys).
In bed - be flexible, move about, do whatever you can to make him feel amazing. Produce a good atmosphere, talk dirty to him, role play - surprise him with something totally new and make it fun, not a chore. It's very important to shift your thinking from "I'm giving him this and that he should be happy he got anything." into "I can't wait to create him scream from pleasure!"
Remember girls, a high level pleaser, men will label you as a "Keeper!" - having a capital "K":)
2. Since you have improved your attitude a little, the following actual life tip is: blow jobs. Yes, you see clearly right. Since you made the decision to be much more of a pleaser in bed, this implies you need to make any fantasy your guy includes a reality. And something of those fantasies are great blow jobs. Every guy wants them more than anything. And it is a skill that most women lack, so - if you're able to be part of the 10-20% of ladies that understand how to give amazing blow jobs, it will be much easier to conquer any guy. Concentrate on developing this skill by practicing in your guy as much as possible. Surprise him with oral sex whenever feasible and please him towards the better of your ability.
The key here is that you observe his reactions for your skills so that you can read him properly and understand how to adjust your method to the guy you're with. Don't be afraid to be as "dirty" as possible. Men want you to become an angel for their Mom and a wh#re during sex. So let go and be free - sexual liberation rules! As for blow jobs I'll tell you the basics: talk dirty, love doing it more than life itself and swallow. Spitters are quitters!
At this time your guy has already been 100 times more satisfied and happy to be around you. Following these pointers can get him to that "third level" of orgasm I was referring to (where his eyes pop out and the brain freezes).
3. Last but not least is determining something very important - his brain. A lot of you ladies believe that we're robots and that anything can turn us on. Well, it can't. It's not only regarding your skills or perhaps your technique - what counts is your capability to master your guys emotions. Guys are visual - so they want to see stuff, you in high heel shoes, with a nice tan, a good body, sexy thongs, a smile and a nice atmosphere.
Concentrate on capturing all of his senses, because his orgasm happens in his brain. At least - this is where the "third level" orgasms do. To get at that much cla, you need to master his mind, not only his penis. Mastering the physical facets of sex aren't that hard, but mastering his emotions, how he feels during sex etc. are a completely different thing. You need to know what to say, and the way to say it. The right words could be magical.
So long as you possess the general guideline of treating him like a King, you cannot fail. Focus on that attitude and you will see near-instant outcomes of love, love and more love. I adore love?:)
He's your King and you should be his Queen that adores pleasing her "Master" and "Royal Highness." Deny him nothing, provide him everything. And you'll get back all you invest, and much, a lot more. I guarantee you that.